How many people who don’t have the slightest idea about the term «happiness», and what is really to be happy even more. Too many people think and talk about what does not would be worth. A passing conversation, and now days and nights the people immersed in thinking about how you need to respond differently, was right to the opponent and so on.
Many think about the «what if once acted differently» — so gradually begins eating himself.
People like to compare yourself with others, be equated. To worry about what someone has, a big house, a beautiful dream jobs, wonderful kids, someone is content with eternal journeys and travels. And thinking meanwhile gnobit himself because he has neither the one nor the other, and in life, he delay is not achieved, chose the wrong path. And worse still to realize that life is not as we would like and lies behind the achievements of other people, more successful.
As they say unhappy people: «Yes it from the parents inherited.», «She meets with the head!», «He’s just always lucky!». No, of course, someone may simply lucky with their parents, or really lucky, but the majority of people achieves success by overcoming an incredible amount of obstacles, sleepless nights and exorbitant labor.
What is important for yourself to consider? You want to capture in your mind the moment you never left the state of euphoria. And return to it when necessary.
And the secret of happiness only in the details, which often people do not notice around. Getting stuck on material welfare, one can lose one’s life important. It is sometimes useful to look back on the sides. Isn’t it amazing — spring blooming fragrant flowers with petals that glow from the penetrating rays of the warm sun? Isn’t it amazing — beautiful sunsets, reminiscent of sparkling magic covering? Isn’t it amazing to Wake up every day and enjoy sunlight coming from the window? And what beautiful views in the winter! How sad, when there is such a tale. The white cloth is covering the city, conveys magic and comfort all around. As well as on the street to walk in the rain, fresh air inspires and relaxes. The sea, the sea is so vast and mysterious. Smiles of loved ones. A hug with a loved one. This is not happiness? There are so many beautiful, one has only to open his eyes wider.
The main mistake of many people is that they reluctantly removed himself from happiness, saying aloud, «I am absolutely unhappy», thus further exacerbating the situation and setting the stage to a standstill.
A piece of your favorite chocolate with a delicious coffee may well deliver the most pleasant experience, but if you combine your favorite composition, then such a pastime can truly be called a pleasure. But if suddenly overcome with a sense of sorrow and grief, to invite friends over to visit and spend time. And you can visit your favorite area in the city, from which grow wings. That can be your favorite cafe, your favorite Park, public garden, and maybe just my favorite bench. Happiness is all around us, you only want to see it and feel it.