There are times when the relationship with the man formed a wonderful – and there is love and harmony, and even the sex is relatively good. Spoil the idyll only one – foreplay does not excite, respectively, it becomes harder to enjoy sex and experience orgasm. How to hint to your partner that he is doing something wrong, not to offend him, not to alienate and not to destroy the relationship?
What to do if husband is not good in terms of foreplay
«Not arousing prelude to sex» or «I don’t excite the affection of her husband» — a frequent claim of the girls, which they share in conversations with my friends. But how to tell your partner about it? After all, it is important that not only honesty, but also sensitivity to similar conversation not to trigger the development of male complexes or cause him to have thoughts about your frigidity (because the others didn’t complain).
Try before another night of love don’t wait for the action from a partner, and take the initiative in their hands. If you don’t like something (rapid penetration of the fingers into the vagina instead of a gentle stimulation of the clitoris or dry and stingy kisses instead of passionate kisses), direct the actions of the husband in the right direction, accompanying their moans showing that you insanely good (better than before).
If a man brings foreplay to a minimum when starting to have sex at the first hint of grease, tell me what you dream about erotic massage and how you want to extend the tactile pleasure beyond just sex. Create appropriate atmosphere – dim lights or candles, aromatic oils, which the man will RUB you. A great option is the foreplay in the bubble bath – the warm water relaxes, hurry up will not want that prelude is prolonged by itself, bringing pleasure to both partners.
What should I do if my husband does not like foreplay?
This is another issue that can set women. Are you sure that he really does not like? Perhaps, nobody said that he is doing something wrong, and the rapid transition to sex – a standard practice (and in past relationships, and in the present). The solution again lies in the candor, but with a pinch of cunning. Can not say directly that the time allocated by husband to the excitation process, you are sorely lacking to start. Instead, ask a loved go through all your erogenous zones (but they are not limited to just the clitoris or the labia). Tell me, what turns you on touching the breast or inner thighs, biting earlobes, kisses in the neck – a lot of options. Affection husband encourage your moans (genuine, without hypocrisy or overacting) to see how easy it is to drive you crazy with a simple touch, and repeated the exercise in the future.
How to get her husband oral sex
If a husband likes oral sex, and don’t hesitate to ask him to bring you pleasure this way. In the intimate life of the complexes is not the place, do not be afraid to ask to stimulate the clitoris language, if you like – no shame in oral foreplay, because it is another way to have fun, to experience orgasm and to achieve harmony in all aspects of the relationship, including sex life. Many men like to give pleasure to the language, but often stiffness women at this point, all the spoils, and the partner tries to quickly go directly to the traditional sexual act.
The main thing – do not keep everything in yourself, and to talk with loved ones, to hint to him that you don’t like what is missing. Do not reproach, do not get angry, do not make claims that can provoke the complexes and the rejection of intimate relationships. Do not expect that things will get better by itself – act, the next night to make a memorable, not complaining that the affection of the husband does not excite and do not give birth.