The words is definitely the tool. And if used wisely you can achieve anything. Conversation can solve most problems and the most wonderful thing that they do can be avoided.
What would you say to a man, to interest the interlocutor will be one of the main outcomes. If you just met and people you will be extremely cute, no need to attract his contrived «coolness», be yourself — that’s the truth.
Sincerity, that’s what attracts. Don’t be afraid to open up. Many might say that it is impossible to be open with everyone, everywhere because of betrayal. Maybe so, but then close to suspiciousness. Conspiracies everywhere, but the communication of loved ones is much more important universal distrust.
Don’t be afraid to know a person, we often find kindred spirit in those who are ready to listen and support. Attractiveness is a very complex issue. But the way of the people, and to understand and accept others, you need to understand yourself.
In many ways, the interestingness depends on the perception of himself. We are our thoughts. Not to be too critical of yourself. The man is a tank, and than it will be filled, you decide. Be interested and be interesting.
The recipe is very simple, be open, sincere, and always remember: it is human nature to change opinions and decisions. You need to understand that all actions have what made to do so.