The person you want to find yourself in life, find a hobby that will every day to please him and to bring material profit.
First you need to look within and find the answer to the question, «What do I really want to do?» Need to find one activity that gives pleasure in its process and result, and begin to develop it. Even if it seems hard to do, even if I am not so young or no education, never too late.
Never too late to find the necessary literature, to listen to trainings or go to school. And the reason of all troubles is one and the same – lack of attention to himself, to his desires and the fear that nothing will happen. You will remain at the starting point, yet don’t concentrate on one direction.
Someone to gather my thoughts and spirit go at someone it takes more time, but you have to admit that it is an integral part of the process, and nowhere to go. The best way to smooth the corners of the inner mental antagonisms is to devote himself to his favorite activity, really become a connoisseur in your field. To feel at ease.
Every day have to face with public opinion, with some controversy, to defend his point of view, their opinion. But nothing should overshadow the path to improve themselves in their field. When the process is to capture all consciousness, outside noise will not seem so Intrusive. And eventually people will start to listen to your opinion, as an expert in their field.
And then there will be wings on his back and a sense of importance himself. Come bring even greater benefits to people in return for their gratitude.